Hi Lady Visitor!

I'm AC and I wrote the ebook What He Really Thinks: The Traffic Lights Guide to the Male Mind. The research for the book took 9 months and first started whilst I was talking with a group of female friends on the subject of men. I started to realise that a lot of what women thought was important to guys wasn’t actually the case, or at least it wasn’t the full story. This was the main inspiration for this website. I spoke with a few male friends about the areas that they felt were most important in a relationship as well as the wealth of male contacts I had built up after 8 years in marketing and events management.

The time seemed right for a website dedicated to the subject of what men really think so I began running informal taped interviews with the different groups of adult men I knew and things mushroomed - as long as I kept their identities anonymous I literally had tens of guys willing to offer their perspectives.

Those discussions are ongoing and I've spoken with over 120 guys (and counting) about women and relationships! Much of the content of those conversations informed the development of chapters in the ebook as well as the podcasts that you can watch and listen to. Nothing you read or see on this site is preachy or prescriptive - just straight talking and entertaining about what he really thinks.